Found this entry on Linda's blog which really reflects my view on friendship. Though it's tough, I'm grateful for the friends that I have. And to my friends, if I've ever unrealisingly hurt your feelings, I'm so sorry.
"Sensitivity to a friend's feelings is crucial in creating a friendship. But sometimes, we tend to forget this. A joke, a teasing or even a jibe, could caused frictions even if it's done unintentionally. Sometimes, when we are talking to friends, especially when we are really comfortable with them, we might gone overboard without realising that somehow, we might have offended them as a result. On the other hand, being too sensitive on a friend's part is not healthy since it restricted the flow of the conversation, ie, prevented between friends from being chummy and close. Sigh!! Sometimes it's tough making friends..."
posted by Lynn | You wanna say something? 
6 Comments:
I am sorry too. Without realising the mistakes.
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Anonymous, at Monday, June 27, 2005
Irah, heehee macam hari raya eh sorry sorry ni?
Linda, thanks for borrowing the words.
Salha, apa tu makna masak? Wahaha.
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Anonymous, at Tuesday, June 28, 2005
Its never too late to say sorry kan. Tak yah lah aku nak tunggu hari raya baru nak minta maaf.
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Anonymous, at Tuesday, June 28, 2005
I agree with what's said but learning how to do it is tough..... all we want is to help
friends and love ones.......and we all do the best we can.....how can you learn something like that.... yes we may never know how the other person is feeling....... this is the universal truth but then again we may never
know how to solve it either...... listening is perhaps the best
solution.....easier said than done......when the aggrieve party
ask for your advice and opinion....
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Anonymous, at Tuesday, June 28, 2005
IMHO
Yes, it's easy to make friends but difficult to maintain a friendship. Over the years, I've learned that if you dun like my style then i'd probably dun fit into your circle of friends and vice versa. Listening 'may' help if only you want to listen. Things like this are best being told of, what you like and what you dun. If i can take it, i'd be cautious in future, else, there's always other kaki's and of course my trusted loving wife to face my nonsense. For that, I thank you.
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Anonymous, at Wednesday, June 29, 2005
Haslinda & Apai,
I don't have much to say. Only glad and thankful that I have both of you as my friends. Touching sek. Tengah nak nangis nih uhuwahwawa
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Anonymous, at Wednesday, June 29, 2005
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