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Friday, February 17, 2006

Do you know about your other half's past relationships?

I was having dinner with a girlfriend and her fiance when the topic came up. They both said that what's past is past. What matters is the present and the future. They are not interested to know about each other's love-life history cos they may upset one another.

Aren't they a little bit curious about the reason why it didn't work out? I'm not asking for details but at least a reason why.

I can understand the reason why they refuse to share with one another. What I don't understand is why aren't they a little bit teeny weeny curious?

The past makes you the person you are today. I would want to know what kind of past my partner had that led him my way. Call me nosey, but I don't want history to repeat itself. We learn from past experiences. And it makes us wiser.

My friends amazed me. They can totally put the past behind them and look forward to a brighter future. But...

I AM SO CURIOUS!!! Wahahaha.

posted by Lynn | You wanna say something?

9 Comments:

Nyonya!! Write about your "urut" sessionlah....!! :)

By Aryna, at Saturday, February 18, 2006
well, sometimes, one's past is not something to be proud off,
or something that he wants to forget....

so, its best to embrace the future...

By Geek In Pink, at Sunday, February 19, 2006
ko nie kepo lah nyonya! *LOL*

By Aliyah, at Monday, February 20, 2006
I would wanna know about my partner's past too!

Segala-galanyer sudah saya korek..hehehe

Its goodla to know about each others past cos it makes both of you appreciate each other more & can react to each other's jealousy..hehehe.Takkan pasal his/her past you suddenly nak tinggalkan each otherkan?Like you said its just ULTIMATE CURIOSITY!

At the end of the day alls forgotten & life resumes as per se...

By mrs malique, at Monday, February 20, 2006
hehe nasib baik aku ngan laki aku take past past ni sume. kita "first love" you.. hehe *mentelz kucing*

By shsuya, at Monday, February 20, 2006
My wife was my first and only. So I don't really have a past. I was my wife's third though. Both her ex-boyfriends are my friends too actually. All from the underground music scene. And yes, I did korek as much of her past as I can even if it gets me a little jealous sometimes. I don't want to pretend not to bother and then speculate things she didn't do. That might end up being a lot worse than the real truth. I can leave the past behind but I must know what the past is. And according to her, the other 2 relationships she had was really not romantic at all. Neither was it physical save for the occasional kissing which is like "Pfftt!!" and nothing more.

PS: If I may ask, where do all your other entries go? I remember seeing some before this one here but then they all disappear whenever there's a newer post. Why like that ah? Because you notty eh?

By Al Sayf, at Monday, February 20, 2006
but yeah thinking abt what u said... if my hubby had a past too I'd wanna know every single detail from A to Z from Alif to Ya. hehe Then I can decide to leave it behind.

By shsuya, at Tuesday, February 21, 2006
No, I can't pretend as if the past doesn't matter because it does. Not that I'll bring it up in the future but it'll shed some lights to what i'm going into.

And for the record, I've korek-ed the details early early from my husband. It's just that my friends got me wonder why some people don't bother to know. Hehe.

Ayong, one of my friends, too, can't read my previous entries. He can only see the latest. I don't know why. If you remember the 'MatKampau' post, yeah, that one I deleted because I was ask to by hubby. And no, I'm not notty. Just trying to be funny :(

Mrsbeki, kisah urut mengurut tu dah basi lah. Hahaha...

Aliyah, memang aku kepoh. Aku pun kepoh nak tahu apasal orang lain tak kepoh. Hahaha...

By Anonymous, at Tuesday, February 21, 2006
KAK LYNN ----> YOU HAVE BEEN TAGGED!!!

By shsuya, at Wednesday, February 22, 2006